Kate Bush's 'Running Up That Hill (A Deal with God)' is a song that delves into the desire for empathetic understanding between genders by positing a fantastical scenario where a man and a woman could swap places. The emotive message discusses the barriers in communication and comprehension that exist due to inherent differences, and the longing to overcome these obstacles. The song metaphorically represents this wish as an uphill battle, one that requires a supernatural 'deal with God' to achieve.
The opening verse of 'Running Up That Hill' initiates the emotional journey by presenting an intriguing question of shared experience and vulnerability. As Kate Bush subtly probes 'Do you wanna feel how it feels?', she draws listeners into a reflective state—pondering their own openness to understanding others' emotions from a deeply personal standpoint. The question doesn't carry accusation but seems to stem from a genuine curiosity mixed with an undercurrent of frustration at the difficulty of achieving true empathy.
Progressing through to the pre-chorus, where Kate Bush shifts from questioning to resolution, 'It's you and me' serves as an intimate assertion that the shared struggle is universal—everyone longs to be understood by others, especially loved ones. The anticipation builds as the emotional crux of the journey arrives in the chorus. The phrase 'And if I only could, I’d make a deal with God, And I’d get him to swap our places' evokes a poignant sense of desperation and yearning to break down barriers that prevent complete understanding.
In the second verse, the emotional path takes a darker turn, highlighting the pain and isolation that comes from being misunderstood. 'But see how deep the bullet lies' conjures an image of emotional wounds that go unnoticed, deepening the sentiment that feeling truly valued and comprehended by those close to us is a tumultuous, often fraught endeavor. Kate Bush captures a sense of struggle and resignation that is, at once, personal and universally relatable.
The bridge 'Oh, come on, baby, let me steal this moment from you now' represents a plea for connection and shared experience—'Let's exchange the experience'—before culminating in a string of choruses that amplify the yearning for resolution. The repetition serves as a mantra, intensifying the sensation of running uphill in an endless struggle for unity and empathy. As the song fades into the outro, the repeated wish 'If I only could, be runnin’ up that hill' leaves listeners reflecting on their own hills to climb towards understanding and compassion.
"You don't wanna hurt me, But see how deep the bullet lies"
This metaphorical statement evokes the depth of emotional pain that can exist even when harm isn't intended, reflecting on the complexity of personal relationships.
"Be runnin’ up that road, Be runnin’ up that hill, Be runnin’ up that buildin'"
The repetition of this line emphasizes the strenuous effort required to achieve understanding across the gender divide or in any challenging emotional endeavor.
"Oh, there is thunder in our hearts, Is there so much hate for the ones we love?"
This lyric touches on the internal conflict and misguided strong emotions that can arise in close relationships, questioning the nature of love and conflict coexisting.
"Let's exchange the experience"
This line captures the core desire of the song to swap perspectives, to truly understand another's emotional landscape by living it.