The song 'Watch Your Mouth' by The Backseat Lovers is a melancholic and contemplative track that examines the emotional turmoil following a relationship's end. It centers on the narrator's struggle to come to terms with his former partner's new life, encompassing changes like a new job, hairstyle, friends, and romantic interest. With an undercurrent of grief and frustration, the lyrics delve into themes of longing, the difficulty of moving on, and the inability to assist a loved one who is faced with personal challenges or an identity crisis.
The song starts with a tone of rhetorical defiance, as if the narrator is trying to convince himself that he is unconcerned with his ex-partner's new life. However, the admission 'Well I do' reveals the truth of his underlying feelings, indicating that despite his attempts to seem indifferent, he is actually deeply affected. The juxtaposition of his insincerity with a confession of his true emotions sets the stage for an emotional journey characterized by pain, denial, and unresolved affection.
In the second verse, the image of a drink slipping across a table and crashing to the ground serves as a metaphor for instability and the potential for emotional outbursts. The warning 'Keep your distance she's unstable / Watch your tone and watch your mouth' implies a delicate situation and a relationship where communication has broken down, hinting at the narrator's cautious approach in dealing with his ex-partner's volatility and his own need to tread carefully.
The mention of records left at the mother's place and the face-slapping effect of listening to them indicates a desire to escape reminders of the past, while keeping up appearances on social media suggests that the ex-partner is possibly struggling with her own identity and public image. This contrast between public facade and private torment presents a complex emotional landscape of superficial changes masking deeper issues.
Finally, the assertion of possession in the lines 'Cause you're not alone, no / You're mine' betrays the narrator's lingering attachment and possessiveness, even as he declares the relationship a waste of time. His plea to 'Take my love / And throw it all out' sends mixed messages, oscillating between rejection and a futile wish to remain connected. The song concludes with an indistinct outro, mirroring the uncertainty and unresolved feelings that persist beyond the end of a relationship.
"Do you think I care / About your new job and your new hair"
These lines introduce the theme of the song by questioning whether the narrator is affected by his ex-partner's changes and attempts to move on.
"Well I do"
This short line contradicts the previous insincerity, indicating that the narrator is indeed affected by the ex-partner's new life.
"They only would've slapped you in the face"
The lyrics imply that the records hold sentimental value, acting as a painful reminder of the past.
"Was I just a waste of, time"
The phrase epitomizes the narrator's emotional conflict, questioning the significance of their relationship and his own feelings of worth.